A long long time ago, when Bethlehem became my home, I met one of my best friends here. My friend is one of 6 siblings who I have also inherited as friends, and now I have photographed 2 of their weddings! What an honor and a joy to be part of the celebrations of one of my favorite families once again.
Rachel and Chris came together in a joyous evening ceremony at one of my most favorite places ever, The Historic Hotel Bethlehem of course! I noticed that as the night went on, this wonderful town became a main character in the love story… The hotel, the amazing shots right on the central star of Bethlehem on Main Street, and even the Moravian candles and stars on the tables at reception. You just can’t do better than that.
You also can’t do better than watching this family join together, kids and all for the first dances, and even first look! As per usual, I shed more than one lil’ tear behind the lens. Congratulations to Rachel, Chris, and kids and family on truly a beautiful event, and on finding each other in our beautiful town.
Whether you’re in the beginning stages of planning your big day, or it’s right around the corner, you want to make sure your wedding day is smooth sailing. You put a ton of planning into this event, but when the day comes, you want to let all that go. Every couple expresses to me that they just want to enjoy their day, and focus on each other and their family and friends. Read on for some tips that will really help this come to fruition, so that not only are YOU relaxed and happy at your wedding, but your vendors and guests feel this way too.
1 – Hire a planner/day-of coordinator
More and more, couples are choosing to take advantage of a planner or a day-of wedding coordinator. They do the hard work so that you don’t have to! They can talk to you about what your needs and desires for the day are, and they can interface with your other vendors to communicate and strategize for the day. It can be very helpful to have just one point of contact to go back and forth with, while knowing your wishes are being communicated to everyone. I love working with coordinators, and if you don’t have one, I will have some names in hand for you, whether the wedding is in Bethlehem, PA, the Lehigh Valley, Philadelphia, or Bucks County and beyond.
2 – Gather your details
Flowers, jewelry, accessories and stationery. You spent the time curating these details to tell the story of who you are as a couple, and to communicate the vibe of your wedding. The little things are beautiful and important! One amazing thing you can do for your photographer is to gather these bits and bobs together BEFORE your photographer arrives, and have them ready to shoot. Often, this will be the first thing your photographer shoots while everyone is getting ready. You can designate someone in your wedding party to be in charge of this!
3 – Have a family point person
Family photos are often very important to my client, and therefore important to me! One thing I have to stress to my clients is that even though YOU know who all of these wonderful people are, as the photographer, it is often my first time meeting 99% of them. Therefore, even though I am experienced at corralling the masses, I will not be as quick to know your aunt or your grandparent’s name, and it might take a little longer to gather the right people. It is super, super helpful to choose a family member, maybe one on each side, who doesn’t mind using a loud voice to gather your loved ones before they run away!
4 – Feed your vendors
Your vendors are working so hard for you, and often are on their feet for a very long day. We LOVE it, and are fueled by our passion for our work, but we do need calories! Make sure you are communicating to your venue or caterers that your vendors will need a full dinner, and the most amazing thing you can do is to feed your vendors before the guests. This may sound wacky, but it makes sense. If your photographer can eat their meal right after everyone is seated, they will be fed and happy by the time you’re up again for those special dances. I am happy to see this happening more and more, and it’s a great call.
5 – Have an inclement weather plan and stick to it
Nature often has other ideas than we do when it comes to the weather. It might be a bummer if you can’t have that outdoor ceremony or portrait session, but the best thing you can do is have an open mind and embrace the plan B. Venues will have an indoor location if it rains and your photographer can make magic inside or with some props, I promise! It can be tempting to want to wait 5 minutes or try to ride it out, but indecision can have a domino effect on the rest of your schedule. Your guests will also thank you for keeping them out of the weather.
6 – Put the phones away
I don’t just mean the wedding couple, although you totally should! I heavily advise communicating to your guests and family that you have a photographer covering all aspects of your wedding day, and that they need to keep their picture taking to the reception, if at all. I love that your aunt with the iPad or dad with his GoPro are so excited to have these memories, but it can be very hard to work around them when important moments are happening during your ceremony. Having a hard and fast rule about this makes my life a lot easier! You can have your officiant make an announcement at the start of the ceremony.
7 – Bring all the pins!
Safety pins, bobby pins, sewing pins and some thread. I don’t think I have to elaborate on this one! Things happen! However, if you forget, I will always have these things on hand, and I am a wiz with the last-minute garment repairs and veil pinnings. I got you.
8 – Take a minute
When you’ve gotten hitched, and we’ve taken some amazing photos, take a second with your love, send me away if you want to, and just breathe with them. This is advice I received before my wedding day and I am so glad. Just be the eye of the tornado, the two of you, because it’s about love at the end of the day ❤
My favorite Romanian dancers are back to grace our screens! I first met Ioana and George at their elopement in Nazareth, PA, where it was just the three of us capturing the moment for a short hour. This time the happy couple came together in a gorgeous Romanian church in New Jersey surrounded by family and friends, arrayed in their stunning traditional clothes. I felt so honored once again to be photographing these memories for them. After the ceremony we frolicked through the nearby fields for portraits to show off those amazing outfits, and their effortless love. My heartfelt congratulations again Ioana and George, I hope you never stop celebrating!
I feel like I just returned from a dream or a past life. Genevieve and Lev’s wedding at Lacawac Sanctuary was such a breath of fresh air (literally) and everything about the event reminded me to circle back and appreciate the true important things in life.
I first met Genevieve ages ago in a similar camp-like setting when I was with one of my very best friends (her cousin!). All of these years later she reached out for her wedding photography and I was so excited to be chosen!
Nestled in the tall trees, near a gorgeous lodge by the lake, Genevieve and Lev spoke to one another of their meeting, love, and promises. Beloved family members and friends recited poetry, shared anecdotes, remembered dear relatives, and toasted the happy couple. I do not think there could have been a dry eye in the place, and I struggled to compose my shots at times as I was wiping mine!
Kids blew bubbles in the waning light, dogs frolicked around our legs. We took advantage of the sunset, and returned for drinks and incredible food. The dancing began and there was an abundance of cake. The evening did not end when I left, but the music went out on a high note with a limbo and laughter.
The most serendipitous convergence of paths brought us all to this time and place where we could celebrate these two happy people, and I’m thankful to have been a part of this day.
I may have gotten the actual words wrong, but the quote in my title comes from groom Brian’s welcome speech at Laura and Brian’s gorgeous wedding celebration yesterday. The gist was that when we think about the best memories of our lives, it’s all about who we were with; who shared those moments with us, above anything else. It is so true, how complete we are when we are surrounded by our favorite souls.
Brian and Laura joined their families together at Gather Event Center in Emmaus. It insisted on sprinkling that afternoon, but held off on pouring long enough for the “I do’s” We took some lovely photos in the gardens and walkways before the ceremony, where the couple’s combined 7 children stood up to join their parents together, it was a wonderful moment. Later, cocktails and converstion, followed by the main party, set to the tunes of the very talented 10-piece band!
I’m honored to have been a part of Brian and Laura’s beautiful day, and I wish them so much happiness and continued memories with their favorite people.
Ioana and George met as dancers, and now they are dancing off into the sunset together as a newly married couple! These sweet and photogenic lovebirds contacted me shortly before their nupitals at Narareth’s Borough Council Chambers (such a pretty old building!) and I jumped at the chance to kick-start my wedding season! Ioana and George were both inspired and inspiring, and their love story lit up the town center. We had only a few short minutes with each other but we made them count, and I think the essence of their romance comes through in these photos. Spring is for lovers!
A gorgeous old mansion, a black dress, high end spirits, and acrobats!!! At least two of those were firsts for me at this perfect October wedding. I enjoyed every hour of capturing this couple’s stunning and sweet event this Saturday. Love filled the air, I mean you could just breathe it right in. Benjamin and Hilary are head over (sparkling) heels for each other. If you couldn’t see it for yourself, Ben was happy to tell you. As we discussed how everyone should be so lucky to have a love like theirs he became serious, saying: “but they’ll never know… because they can’t have her; she’s mine!” I just about melted on the spot, and that’s BEFORE he saw his bride in her incredible black gown. Tears ensued (mine). Please enjoy these moments at Bethlehem’s inimitable Sayre Mansion, and share their joy!
I met Tanya and Avi at Bethlehem’s district court for their quick and sincere marriage ceremony on Monday. They had decided the hullaballoo of a larger wedding was not their style, and were happy to tie the knot in a low key and un-fussy way. They made this decision look super appealing, and it was nice not to have to worry about anyone else but each other during such a special moment. After the ceremony, we took a stroll around Bethlehem’s historic Archibald Johnston estate, which we had all to ourselves to capture some casual but loving pictures. The newlyweds were brilliant at smiling and laughing through their photography trepidation. Any wedding day that turns into laughter is a win in my book!